Liar Liar: Why People Rarely Do What They Say They’re Going to Do

February 24, 2010 | Self-regulation

I’m constantly coming up with new things I want to do, new businesses I want to launch, books I want to write, instruments I want to play, sports I want to master, races I want to complete, pounds I want to lose, etc.
Some of these ideas I’ve had for years. Many I have started but [...]

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Change or Die Part III

November 20, 2008 | Brain Change

Scientists used to believe that the brain became “hardwired” early in life and couldn’t change later on. Now researchers such as Dr. Michael Merzenich, a professor at the University of California at San Francisco, say that the brain’s ability to change — its “plasticity” — is lifelong. The key is to keep up the brain’s machinery for learning.

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Change or Die Part II

November 19, 2008 | Brain Change

Why do we fight even what we know to be in our own best interests? It turns out that one of the most important factors in helping people change habits and behaviors has to do with motivation. See what Dean Ornish did.

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Change or Die Part I

November 18, 2008 | Brain Change

What if a well-informed, trusted authority figure said you had to make difficult and sustained changes in the way you think and act? If you didn’t, you would die — a lot sooner than necessary. Could you change when change really mattered? When it mattered most?

You’re probably thinking yes, of course I would. But, you’d be deluding yourself.
That’s right. Scientific research has shown the odds are in fact 9 to 1 against you.

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Have You Been Wowed Lately?

November 8, 2008 | Change

“If you keep doing what you’ve always done then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten.”

Have you ever noticed that you have a set point? You likely have a set point when it comes to your significant relationships, your weight, the money you earn and the level of risk you are willing to take when [...]

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Prepare for Change

October 31, 2008 | Change

Change is a funny thing. I have worked with many clients who have said they were ready for change but when it really came down to it, they weren’t. They were not ready to say “no” to things they were doing that weren’t effective because it was simply too comfortable to keep towing the line. [...]

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When It’s Finally Time to Change

October 21, 2008 | Change

Have you ever wondered why you and people around you will continue to do things that are just this side of tortuous? Maybe you work with clients you hate, you work in a job that doesn’t feed your soul, you work with colleagues that make you miserable or you are in a relationship that doesn’t [...]

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You’re Not the Biggest Loser!

October 11, 2008 | Change

Have you ever watched “The Biggest Loser”? I love that show. I am simply in awe of the whole thing. I can’t imagine what it would feel like to know that your health is in jeopardy and you weigh in at over 300-400 pounds! That’s an outrageous burden and I’m overwhelmed by what these people are doing in such a short time.

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