What or Who Will You Divorce in 2009?

Most of us think about divorce in terms of a marriage breaking up. But when you think about, what’s really going on in a divorce can apply in so many more areas of your life. People divorce for a million reasons: money, kids, infidelity, fighting, work, stress, illness, etc. But the underlying reality is that most divorce because being together is no longer better than being apart.

Tags: divorce, Habits, Relationships, Transformation

Complaining Serves No One – Especially YOU!

Whatever is going on in your life at any given moment simply is. It’s not good or bad – it just is.
Our minds are non-stop mental computers that tend to label everything as good or bad. And as I am sure you are aware, a lot of time we label things as bad.

Tags: complaining, energy, steve pavlina

What’s Your Second Nature?

According to Psychology Today, Positive psychologists now think that many of the qualities we hold in high regard such as integrity, honesty and kindness amount to habitual ways of responding to the world. So, they’re habits that can be learned.

Tags: christopher peterson, habitual ways, personality traits, psychology today, second nature

Change Your Beliefs, Change Your Life

It’s not the events of our lives that shape us but our beliefs about what those events mean.  When I think about how powerful our beliefs can be I immediately think about the story of Randy Pausch, the professor at Carnegie Mellon who’s “Last Lecture” turned into an Internet sensation that has been viewed by [...]

Tags: beliefs, love, Randy Pausch

Ask Different Questions

“Some men see things as they are, and say, ‘Why?’ I dream of things that never were, and say, ‘Why not?’” – George Bernard Shaw
Have you ever noticed that when you think, you are constantly asking yourself questions? Did I make the right decision? Am I doing this right? Is this the best move for [...]

Tags: questions, Success, Tony Robbins

Set Your Intention

I want to share something I learned from Abraham-Hicks that involves breaking your day up into segments and then creating a particular intention for that segment. It’s a quick exercise that takes only a few moments but you’ll quickly discover how powerful this practice can be. When I do it I always find myself committed [...]

Tags: focus, intention, meditation

Prepare to Be WOWED!

As promised, here are a few ideas to help you get out of your comfort zone. Some you may have never thought of and some you may have heard before but still don’t do.
1. Face your fears in small steps.
One of the fears that came up for a lot of people at the seminar was [...]

Tags: comfort zone, confidence, face your fears, Fear, imaginary dangers

The Magic of Persistence

”Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” Thomas Edison

There is likely no better advice I could give than to tell you to persist. In the face of every obstacle, roadblock, or misfortune you have to persist. Persistence is what separates those who [...]

Tags: beliefs, coaching, mentor, persistence

3 Secrets to Attracting Negative Things to Your Life

Negativity breeds negativity and just as it takes money to make money, it takes positive energy to produce more positive results. If however you take pleasure in attracting more negative stuff to your life, I recommend the following:
1.         Expect negative things to happen to you. The more attention you give to negative thoughts, the more [...]

Tags: complaining, energy, negativity

Risk Taking Leads to Fantastic Surprises

How many times have you read about someone who invented something or took a risk and succeeded and you thought, “I could have done that”? We all have a “million dollar” idea; unfortunately, most of them don’t get realized. Every one of us has the power to create the life we dream of but very [...]

Tags: Happiness, life relationships, risk, take risks